First Rupture

No one was in labour, we were just waiting to go for a c-section in an hour or so (after the heart they were working on). So I thought it would be safe to go for a coffee on Davie street with my friend Kai when he paged me.

Just after having sat down by the steamy window, slurping milky goodness... beeping from my pager. Annoyed, I glanced down at the number. The emergency room, probably someone with a miscarriage, and I rolled my eyes groaning. At least I can finish my coffee. I called on my cell phone and got the emerg doc directly.

There's a lady here who can't keep her pressure, we think she has a ruptured ectopic. We're really worried about her and need you to come now.

Hmmm... drop coffee.... walk briskly thru the drizzle. Stroll into the trauma room. Pristinely calm and efficient on the outside. Heart pounding, thoughts racing internally.

She is crashing and has what looks like a belly full of blood on ultrasound. I order some blood right away, call my staff, and call the OR. Things are in motion.

The part that always gets me, is the fear and pain in their eyes. She didn't know she was pregnant. Just after dinner she felt the worst pain she has ever had and then passed out, to regain consciousness in the ambulance. Her husband leans his face close to hers, eyes glazed over, brimming with tears that won't come, scared. As we flow around them in our clockwork fashion, poking, prodding, sticking needles in, wiring her for sound. I realize I have no concept of what it would be like to look into someone's eyes who I love more than anything, not knowing whether they will live or die. I ask to talk to him to get consent for the surgery. The risks and complications reel off my tongue, 'her condition is very serious' I hear myself say, 'she needs an operation right now'. I'm sure he hears nothing, just signs the paperwork, nodding, thanking me again and again for nothing that I deserve.

The elevator creaks as it sweeps us up to the operating room, she is wheeled in and asleep in minutes. Her skin white as porcelain and cool to the touch even through my sterile gloves. My hand reflexively grasping the scalpel, slicing through the skin. I look at the incision confused. The normal bright red dots that appear on the skin edge and throughout the rich shinny fat are absent. The tissues gape open moist and bloodless. She has no blood left to bleed.

Through the peritoneum and instantaneously blood is everywhere. Dark red livery clots. Bright red pulsations. We suction out three liters. Digging to find what we're looking for, its no more than three centimeters, a little blob in her left fallopian tube. We end up taking the tube out since the pregnancy has completely ruptured through, destroying it as a future egg hose to the uterus.

I marveled at it all. This tiny gestation that nearly killed her in the course of an evening. Amazing as well that we could fix it. That she is one tube down but one heart still beating. Every moment of it exhilarated me. If the outcome had been different I hope my emotions would have been appropriately altered. I wonder.

I wonder how I roll my eyes when asked to see another miscarriage but get high during critical situations. Who is this person I am becoming?

La Lecheria Esta Cerada

The fiery Aussie nurse lent over the bassinet holding the hour-old infant whose mouth was rooting around looking for some nourishment. In her slurred accent, she said smiling, "Sorry mate, the milk ba's not open yet, but your mama will be back from the operating room just as soon as she can."

The proud father, brow furrowed and eyes serious responded: "Excuse me, I'm very sorry, but he only speaks Spanish." Lifting up his child, he cupped his tiny son's head in his hand, and in a gentle flowing voice translated what the nurse had said. La lecheria esta cerada, pero ahorita viene tu mami.

I love my job.